Divorce can happen for many different reasons—every situation is unique. Some couples have a big, dramatic breakup or are constantly arguing. Other couples seem like they’re doing fine from the outside, but they slowly drift apart over time.
It can be helpful to understand some of the top reasons why divorce happens. This may help you identify red flags in your own relationship so that you can begin preparing in advance for the complexities of divorce—dividing marital assets, splitting up parenting time and legal custody, and much more.
The top 3
According to some studies, 43% of people noted “basic incompatibility” as the reason for their divorce. This was the top category and could be a reflection of no-fault divorce laws. Couples can essentially just claim that they have irreconcilable differences and are no longer compatible, without having to go into the details.
Next, 28% of people cited infidelity as the reason for their divorce. While there are some couples who can rebuild their relationship after an affair, this is a bridge too far for many people, and it will spell the inevitable end of the relationship.
Third, couples talked about “money issues.” This could include things like differences in how they view money—such as disagreements about spending or saving. It could also include generalized financial stress, such as someone having a partner who can’t keep a job and struggling to make ends meet.
Moving toward divorce
Have you seen some of the same issues in your own marriage, and do you think a divorce may be on the horizon? It can help to work with an experienced firm as you explore your legal options.