Illinois kids are headed back to school, and families are readjusting to the school year routine this month. When you share parenting time with your child’s other parent, it may take a little more work and preparation to keep things moving smoothly during this transition, and throughout the year.
Here are some helpful steps co-parents can take to navigate this school year.
1. Stay on top of the schedule
The school year is a busy time for your child. On top of hours of learning and homework, they may also have extracurriculars they must attend. It is important for you and your co-parent to be aware of the time commitments regarding your child’s activities, so you can factor that information into your own schedules.
Most importantly, you will want to ensure the arrangement of all your schedules adheres to your parenting time schedule and agreement.
2. Strategize for school events
On top of extracurricular sports games or musical performances, the calendar of this school year will also include various events, such as parent-teacher conferences and even graduation celebrations at the end of the year. Along with the every day schedules, co-parents must also address how they will approach these events.
For example, will you be attending parent-teacher conferences together? Or will you be arranging separate times?
3. Check in on your child regularly
This step is especially important if your divorce is fairly recent. Your child may still be adjusting to the changes in their home life, and school might add even more pressure. Keep an eye out for common signs of stress in children, such as:
- Withdrawing from friends and family
- Significant changes in habits and behavior
- Emotional outbursts
- Struggling in school and falling grades
Staying connected with your child can help you catch these signs early and protect their wellbeing.
This year might bring new challenges for your child, and your whole family. Planning ahead and communicating effectively can help you all have a successful school year.